whatcha mean "not appropriate to go"? sounds dubious
they are dubious people to start with...
but they are volunteers we engage with... and being what we are,
we should not be going in a personal capacity when they have
invited us in our official capacity.. and other crap like
that...
basically, i don't like them because everything in me screams
out "do not trust them"
so there..
nevermind.. i've replied in a very generic and polite way saying
we have personal appointments...